Monday, March 12, 2012

25 THINGS EVERY NEW MOTHER SHOULD KNOW



1.            Giving birth is a complex emotional experience.
2.            A new born baby is already a person.
3.            You and your baby need to stay together.
4.            Breastfeeding really is better than bottle-feeding.
5.            You can solve breastfeeding problems.
6.            New mothers need special care.
7.            All your energy goes to the baby.
8.            Your baby needs your help when she cries.
9.            Your baby needs you close by day.
10.        Your baby needs you close by night.
11.        Beware of the self-soothing baby.
12.        You really do have intuition.
13.        Things will never be “normal” again.
14.        Playtime is all the time.
15.        You can get the baby’s father involved.
16.        It’s all right to feel like crying.
17.        Fathers go on being husbands; parents are still lovers.
18.        Staying home with your baby can be practical and rewarding.
19.        If you go back to work, you’ll still be the person most important to your baby.
20.        Some babies are more challenging than others.
21.        Continuing to breastfeed is worth the effort.
22.        You are the expert on your baby.
23.        You need people to lean on.
24.        You don’t have to be perfect.
25.        How you mother your baby does make a difference.

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Monday, March 5, 2012

Roots and Wings (A Child's Bedtime Song) By Dr. Denis Waitley

Give Children Freedom with a Firm Foundation


If I had two wishes, I know what they would be:

I'd wish for roots to cling to, and wings to set me free.

Roots of inner values, like rings within a tree,
And wings of independence, to seek my destiny.

Roots to hold forever to keep me safe and strong,
To let me know you love me, when I've done something wrong.

To show me by example, and help me learn to choose,
To take those actions every day, to win instead of lose.

Just be there when I need you, to tell me it's all right,
To face my fear of falling when I test my wings in flight.

Don't make my life too easy; it's better if I try
And fail and get back up myself, so I can learn to fly.

If I had two wishes, and two were all I had,
And they could just be granted, by my Mom and Dad

I wouldn't ask for money, or any store-bought things,
The greatest gifts I'd ask for are simply roots and wings

© 2007 by Denis Waitley